TRUE LOVE WAITS^_^

I’ll dine with my family… and with my beautiful friends. I’ll text them and say I love them for taking care of me… go out with them, watch movies, eat lots and lots of ice cream, write blogs, cook spaghetti, have fun, pamper myself, maybe plan to have a great escape from work, reach my dreams, travel, and maybe someday, when "God senses I am strong enough to enter into a commitment",

I’ll meet that someone who can promise that my tears will be worthwhile shedding and could promise me that no matter how many beautiful girls he meets and sees, he would still come home and tell me sincerely that I am his perfect match- and that’s something worth looking forward to^_^

PSEUDO RELATIONSHIPS "we're just friends syndrome"

it became a trend nowadays in the society..
from the Greek word pseûdos means falsehood; almost, approaching, or trying to be...

its hard to explain, but take this as an example, from the movie "500 DAYS OF SUMMER"

SUMMER: We're just friends.
TOM: No, don't pull that with me! Dont even try! This is not how you treat your friend! Kissing in the copy room? Holding hands in IKEA? Shower sex? Come on! Friends my balls!
SUMMER: I like you, Tom. I just don't want a relationship.
TOM: Well, you're not the only one who got to say on this, I do too. And I say we're a couple, goddammit!

you thought just because you kiss, hold hands, make love,secretly love each other,
one thing for sure though.. you never said iloveyou.

but why people tend to deal with this kind of relationship, just because its convinient?
just because its in? doesnt it hurts too?
"If this is so complicated then why do people still enter this kind of relationship?"


or is it because they just have one thing in mind

NO EXPECTATIONS, NO DISAPPOINTMENT

you can get upset, hurt, angry but you're not in the position to burst it..
so you must be good in concealing with how you really feel..
isnt it being scared?

"So are you saying that I can't complain even when i'm hurting?"
You see, the truth about pseudo relationship is that there is no "us". No "we" either. Only "me" and "you". There is love (even great love) but the relationship has no label. There are no guarantees. No future plans. You just go with the flow. But your pain is real. And it's self-inflicted so why complain?

again from the movie..

TOM: Look, we don't have to put a label on it. That's fine, I get it. I just need, you know, some consistency.
SUMMER: I can't give you that. Nobody can.

If you're in a pseudo relationship now just follow the rules and you'll survive somehow. You can't control your emotions but you can control your actions.

another line from an episode of HOUSE
"If love is based on lies, does that mean it's not a real feeling? It doesn't bring the same pleasure?"

at the end of the day.. when everything gets down over and over again.. isnt it tiring?

how long can someone hold on to this?

.........we're not getting any younger so lets do what we want / whatever will make us happy.. the question is, are we really happy?..

nothing is what it seems...

Reality^_^

Namimiss ko yung mga araw na tumatakas ako makapunta lang sa inyo, mga oras na pinipilit kong pagkasyahin makasama ka lang, mga minuto na kahit sobrang iksi nalang kahit nasan man ako gagawa at gagawa ako ng paraan makarating lang basta't sinabi mong "dapat andito ka na sa oras na to ah", mga segundo na minamadali kong dumaan para makita ka na. Sa dalawang taon na pinagsamahan natin bawat araw, oras, minuto, segundo, na kasama kita wala akong pinagsisihan kahit dumaan yung mga araw at pangyayaring di tayo naging masaya. mag iisang taon na lumipas mula nung nag pasya akong maging malaya dahil ayoko ng masaktan pa tayo pareho at para hanapin yung nawawalang AKO nung naging tayo. Sobrang daming hadlang na hanggang ngayon lumilitaw pa din, mga taong di nagiging masaya pag masaya tayo. Salamat dahil hanggang ngayon bahagi pa din ako ng buhay mo. Salamat din sa mga taong naging masaya para satin, sa mga taong sumuporta at gumabay satin, sa lahat ng umalalay sa mga pinagdaanan natin. Di man tayo lubos na naging masaya atleast kahit papano naiparamdam natin na di natin kaya dati na mawala ang isa't-isa. Sana tuloy tuloy na yung kaligayahan mo ngayon. Di ko na ngayon makaksama yung taong peyborit kong sabihan ng mga problema. Yung taong laging nag sasabing "ok lang yan "Mi"dito lang ako lagi kakampi mo".

Di naman lahat nag tatagal. Darating yung araw na kailangan nyo ding mag hiwalay. Kung kayo, kayo. Kung hindi, hindi. Kailangan lang pang unawa at pag-intindi. Sabi nga nila: "you dont know know what you have until you lose it, but its not like that. You always know what you have, you just never thought you would lose it."

..BULONG NG ISIP WAG KANG PAKAWALAN NGUNIT PUSO KO AY KAILANGAN KANG IWAN

misszhyrin :))

LOVE- bakit ba nakakaloka ka??

Well here I go again..waiting for my one true love, may dumating nga c Mr. J, nakoo ayun same as my old ex bf.. pero kahit papano pinakilig nia ko, pero bakit naman kasi involve na naman ang pera..tsk prang hindi cia deserving mpabilang sa family ko, so ayun tinapos ko na ugnayan namin..tapos ngayon nasundan nmn ni Mr. C, ayun una parang hey his different, so napaisip nnman aq bka " he's the one" na pero bigla na lang sya nagbago, hindi ko alam kung bakit, kung kelan tipong nahuhulog na q, ayun.. pro kahit papano, happy na q kung anu meron kame, yun bang tipong magtxt cia okei, grabe huh, magkausap kame sa phone, tpos mag kchat kame.. naka webcam pa.. pero hanggang dun na lang ba un.. he said "i love you" sometimes pero hanggang ganun lang.. hindi ko alam kung anu gusto nia mangyari, natatakot ako na baka kung kelan super na aattach na ako bigla nanaman nia aq bitawan, haist san nnman aq pupulutin dba.. haist nako LOVE bkit nakakaloka ka??

Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough

L-O-V-E ♥ A-D-V-I-C-E

What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its his ego.

Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with you all the time, tell him you cant respect a "puppy" for long.

Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga?

Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way to understanding him later pag may disagreement kayo.

Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after a date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective. Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.

Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter ang laging kabog!

True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.

It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is how often you make bati. :P

Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na... "uy, bati na tayo...". But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na. Don't sweat the small stuff.

Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like nung una. 'Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2. Change WILL happen... you both will change and your love WILL change too. It's up to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.

When break up comes and it's time to say goodbye, don't doubt the love just because it didn't last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man nagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never meant to last forever. Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on.

Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain. Ika nga "it's when you hurt the worse that you love the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag ka na lang magmahal.

Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom.

(FORWARDED)

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It’s funny how the less you talk, the more you begin to realize it was not meant to be. It’s funny how slow it began, and how fast it ended. It’s funny how in the beginning he liked you, but in the end he liked someone else. It’s funny how he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.

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